8 Steps to Achieve Orgasm Without Ejaculation in Tantra Massage
Tantra is a spiritual tradition that emphasizes the connection between the physical and the spiritual, often incorporating sexual energy as a path to personal and spiritual growth. It involves practices like breath control, meditation, and mindful sexuality to deepen intimacy and expand consciousness.
Orgasm is the peak of sexual pleasure, characterized by intense sensations and often accompanied by muscle contractions. It’s typically associated with a feeling of release and euphoria.
Ejaculation is the physical release of semen from the body, usually occurring with orgasm in men. In Tantra, orgasm and ejaculation can be separated, allowing for the experience of orgasmic pleasure without the physical release, which is believed to conserve energy and enhance spiritual development.
Steps to Achieve Orgasm Without Ejaculation in Tantra Massage
Step 1
Understanding Your Body and Arousal Levels:
- Arousal Awareness: Become familiar with the different stages of your arousal. Learn to recognize the point of no return (often referred to as the “ejaculatory inevitability” point) so that you can pull back before reaching it.
- Practice Mindfulness: Cultivate an awareness of your bodily sensations during arousal. This can be enhanced through meditation or other mindfulness practices.
Step 2
Breath Control:
- Deep Breathing: Focus on deep, slow breathing to help control your arousal levels. Inhale deeply into your belly, hold for a moment, and then exhale slowly. This helps circulate sexual energy throughout your body rather than concentrating it in the genitals.
- Circular Breathing: Try circular breathing techniques where the inhale and exhale are continuous without pauses. This can help move energy upwards through the body.
Step 3
Muscle Control:
- Kegel Exercises: Strengthen your pelvic floor muscles (PC muscles) through regular Kegel exercises. These muscles are key in controlling ejaculation. During Tantra massage, contract these muscles to help hold back ejaculation when you feel it approaching.
- Relaxation: At the same time, practice relaxing your body and pelvic area. Tension can lead to a quicker ejaculation, so finding a balance between contraction and relaxation is crucial.
Step 4
Energy Circulation:
- Microcosmic Orbit: Visualize your sexual energy moving up your spine to the crown of your head and then back down to your navel. This Taoist technique helps to circulate energy through your body instead of allowing it to build up in the genitals.
- Sensory Awareness: Focus on the sensations throughout your body, not just in the genitals. Allow the pleasure to spread and flow, directing it away from the point of ejaculation.
Step 5
Point of No Return Techniques:
- Controlled Stimulation: During the Tantra massage, allow yourself to approach the point of orgasm, but then slow down or pause the stimulation before reaching ejaculation. This “point of no return” technique can help you train your body to separate orgasm from ejaculation.
- Multiple Waves of Pleasure: As you practice point of no return, you may experience multiple waves of pleasure that resemble orgasms but without the loss of energy associated with ejaculation.
Step 6
Mind-Body Connection:
- Intentional Focus: Use your mind to focus on spreading the pleasure throughout your entire body. Imagine the orgasmic energy moving beyond your genitals, filling your whole being.
- Visualization: Visualize the orgasmic energy rising through your body, connecting with higher energy centers (chakras), and expanding your consciousness.
Step 7
Post-Authentic Tantra Massage Relaxation:
- Release Slowly: After an Authentic Tantra massage, the post-relaxation phase is often characterized by a deep sense of peace, fulfilment, and connection. This feeling can be both physically and emotionally soothing.
- Energy Integration: After the session, take time to integrate the experience. Meditate or rest to allow your body and mind to absorb the heightened energy and sensations.
Step 8
Post-Authentic Tantra Massage Relaxation:
- Release Slowly: After an Authentic Tantra massage, the post-relaxation phase is often characterized by a deep sense of peace, fulfilment, and connection. This feeling can be both physically and emotionally soothing.
- Energy Integration: After the session, take time to integrate the experience. Meditate or rest to allow your body and mind to absorb the heightened energy and sensations.
Profound Calmness: Your body and mind might feel deeply relaxed, with a sense of tranquility spreading throughout your entire being. This calmness is often more intense than the relaxation experienced after conventional massages due to the mindful and intentional nature of Tantra.
Heightened Awareness: You may feel more in tune with your body and surroundings, with an enhanced sense of awareness. This heightened state can bring clarity, making you more present and mindful.
Emotional Release: Some people experience an emotional release, feeling more open, vulnerable, or connected to their emotions. This can bring about a sense of relief, joy, or even tears, as blocked emotions are released.
Energy Flow: You might notice a gentle flow of energy throughout your body, often described as a tingling or warmth. This is the sexual energy that has been circulated and transformed during the massage, now settled and integrated into your body.
Spiritual Connection: A deeper sense of spiritual connection or a feeling of unity with your partner (if involved) and the universe can arise. This can be accompanied by a feeling of contentment and wholeness.
Physical Sensations: You might feel physically lighter, with muscles relaxed and tension released. This physical comfort often accompanies a sense of being grounded and balanced.
Key Aspects of Orgasm Sensation in Tantra Massage
In a Tantra massage, the sensation of orgasm can be quite different from what is typically experienced during conventional sexual activity. Rather than a quick, intense peak followed by a release, a Tantric orgasm is often described as a more expansive, full-body experience that can last much longer and be more deeply satisfying.
Full-Body Pleasure:
- The orgasmic sensation often spreads beyond the genitals, enveloping the entire body. This can manifest as waves of pleasure that ripple through the body, creating a sense of unity and oneness.
Extended Duration:
- Unlike a typical orgasm that is brief, a Tantric orgasm can last several minutes or longer. The experience is often more gradual, with sensations building slowly and remaining at a high level of pleasure for an extended time.
Deep Emotional Connection:
- The orgasm may be accompanied by profound emotional experiences. Feelings of love, bliss, and deep connection—either with oneself or a partner—are common.
Heightened Sensory Awareness:
- Sensations during a Tantric orgasm are often more intense and refined. Every touch, breath, and movement can be felt more vividly, leading to a richer and more nuanced experience of pleasure.
Energy Flow:
- The orgasmic energy may feel like it’s moving or circulating throughout the body, often described as a warm or tingling sensation. This is part of the energy flow that Tantra seeks to cultivate, spreading sexual energy to different parts of the body and beyond.
Spiritual Bliss:
- Some people experience a sense of spiritual elevation or transcendence during a Tantric orgasm. This can feel like a connection to something greater than oneself, often described as a state of bliss or ecstasy.
Control and Presence:
- The person receiving the massage may feel a heightened sense of control over their orgasmic response, with the ability to prolong or intensify the sensations through breath, focus, and relaxation.
The orgasm in an Authentic Tantra massage is not just a physical event but a holistic experience that integrates the body, emotions, and spirit. It is often seen as a transformative experience, leaving the person feeling deeply relaxed, connected, and fulfilled.
Self-knowledge is a chain of information about ourselves and as we delve deeper into ourselves, we expand the way we connect with our source of inspiration and vitality.
Tantric massage is a boost, for example, it expands this vision of self-knowledge, it brings clairvoyance, peace of mind and harmony with our body, pleasure, orgasm and more internal desires to be free, within ourselves.
Read more: The Beginner’s Guide for my Tantra Massage
Explore My Treatments for Woman
Book an appointment with me
Blog
Add Your Heading Text Here Tantra massage can be particularly beneficial for men struggling with premature ejaculation by addressing both the physical and psychological aspects of sexual function. Here’s how
Yoni egg is a polished egg-shaped stone or crystal that used for pelvic floor exercises inside the Yoni. Yoni in Sanskrit mean womb, receptacle, origin or source; root cause of
Many people who look for my work are energetically exhausted and somehow cannot find a way out, they are people with emotional problems, traumas, depression, anxiety, existential crises, people who
Vaginismus is the body’s automatic reaction to the fear of some or all types of vaginal penetration Involuntary contraction of the muscles in the pelvic and vaginal region causes pain and
Premature ejaculation indicates the loss of voluntary control of the ejaculatory reflex. Some experts define premature ejaculation as ejaculation that occurs less than 2 minutes after penetration or in less
Low libido can come from several external and internal factors, being caused by stress, anxiety, use of medications such as antidepressants or antihypertensives, relationship problems, sex without orgasm, emotional problems,
